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speedyxjs - 17/8/10 at 11:08 AM

I have been putting off writing this post for a while now as i figured it would all blow over but it hasn't.

I have had enough of some of the rude and offensive comments from one forum member so i am not going to visit the forum for a while. I dont want to name said person as i know s/he has freinds on here and i dont want to upset them.

I would like to thank everyone for their help over the last few years and Chris and Fozzie for this website. I certainly wouldn't have built my car without it!


mistergrumpy - 17/8/10 at 11:11 AM

Hope you're still going to keep visiting though? I know what you mean but you don't have to post for a while just keep your eye in and most of the trolls disappear after a while or move over to pistonheads


TimC - 17/8/10 at 11:12 AM

Sticks and stones Mate...


cd.thomson - 17/8/10 at 11:15 AM

you get the same people everywhere, don't beat yourself up.

Also don't cut off your nose to spite your face!


r1_pete - 17/8/10 at 11:16 AM

Don't let them get to you, such behaviour from some is certainly not warranted, and dissagreements are bound to occur we all have our ways methods opinions & skills and it is is that which makes this a great place to trade help and ideas, you'll find whoever is 'upsetting' you have none of the above!!


scootz - 17/8/10 at 11:19 AM

That's not good... pull whoever it is up on their rudeness / offensiveness publicly - we seem to have a decent mix on here and should be able to sort out most problems between us!


MakeEverything - 17/8/10 at 11:21 AM

Now the hunt is on. Who was it......?

(Hope it wasnt me!)

As above Speedy, dont let it get to you. Youre doing a cracking job on the car and ive been following the progress. Will be a shame to not see it progressing.


blakep82 - 17/8/10 at 11:29 AM

not cool fella
name and shame i think. pull them up publicly


tegwin - 17/8/10 at 11:30 AM

Just ignore the nobber thats winding you up...

If you leave, they win...

Just dont rise to them, dont respond to them....

You get keyboard warriors on all forums on the web.... you just have to take it with a pinch of salt..


nige - 17/8/10 at 11:30 AM

this is not on
the people who run this site should sort it
personel abuse is not nice as it is all to easy to sit behind a screen and type it this is a good site , but as said there are
d**ks in all walks of life
you should put in a complaint and then out them
dont just leave


Bumble - 17/8/10 at 11:32 AM

As he said ^^^^^^

quote:
Originally posted by tegwin
Just ignore the nobber thats winding you up...

If you leave, they win...

Just dont rise to them, dont respond to them....

You get keyboard warriors on all forums on the web.... you just have to take it with a pinch of salt..


liam.mccaffrey - 17/8/10 at 11:37 AM

[Ego Massage]You are one of the few who have suceeded in building a car drastically different from the book, if you leave, this site will be a poorer place without you experiences[/Ego Massage]

The above is tongue in cheek but true

Front up, I'm sure the person can take it.


Miks15 - 17/8/10 at 11:41 AM

nooo dont go speedy

As said it wouldnt be the same without people doing the different things, and i think well all agree yours i one of the more interesting builds.

Name the person, or talk to him about it, noone else needs to know who it is.


gottabedone - 17/8/10 at 11:43 AM

As said Speedy - you can't quit because of a to55er winding you up!

Especially as a lot of us are watching your build as it's a refreshing break from the norm !

Give it a week to cool off then come back with a vengance!

steve


balidey - 17/8/10 at 11:43 AM

quote:
Originally posted by liam.mccaffrey
The above is tongue in cheek but true


Sounded more like 'tongue between cheeks' to me

Always sad to hear of people leaving a forum because of disagreements. But Speedy can I ask, is it a genuine case of rude comments, of is it the old problem of something being able to be read a number of ways? I think we are all guilty of that. Could it all be a misunderstanding?


richard thomas - 17/8/10 at 11:50 AM

Mate, for the 1 person that's getting to you, there are hundreds of others on here who appreciate your (and everybody else's for that matter) views and comments...put it below you.

Rich.


omega 24 v6 - 17/8/10 at 11:52 AM

must be personal U2U's surely??
Just block the sender and carry on. Don't leave why should you??
Name and shame.


steve m - 17/8/10 at 11:54 AM

"[Ego Massage]You are one of the few who have suceeded in building a car drastically different from the book, if you leave, this site will be a poorer place without you experiences[/Ego Massage] "

or in real terms you have/are building a car from scratch, and i doubt if 10% of the members on this site have or will ever achieve the same !!

I used to get very wound up by a couple of idiots on this and other sites, especially from idiots who were incapable of building a lego house let alone a car

Rise above them

I did

regards

Steve


jossey - 17/8/10 at 11:55 AM

hsorry to hear you off for a while.

hope to see you again.


dave


Irony - 17/8/10 at 11:56 AM

There are internet trolls everywhere. Don't worry about them. Some people believe that as its just on the net it doesn't matter what you say to people.

On all the forums I have been on this is probably the best. Lots of honest, generous people who love to help others. A few slightly spoil it for the many but you can't let them bother you. Concentrate on all the positive comments above^^^^^. Not on the boring, tiresome internet trolls who have nothing else better to do.

Besides I really like that vid of the stupidly noises straight 6 you put up.


nick205 - 17/8/10 at 11:57 AM

Don't let some random idiot prevent you from contributing to the mix.

Isn't there a setting to ignore posts from specific members?


craig1410 - 17/8/10 at 11:58 AM

As above, don't allow yourself to be intimidated. You've done nothing wrong and can count on the support of almost everyone on this forum to stay and sort out these issues.


Benzine - 17/8/10 at 12:01 PM

stay dude! *straight six solidarity*


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 12:03 PM

Just ignore whoever it is.....

You should have seen all of the 'off-forum' comments I had, when some found out that I was female, had built a car....even some questioning my sexuality......And oh yes.....I have the sheer audacity to have had a National B race licence for quite a few years....Ye Gods.....if 'some' had had their way I would have been burnt at the stake! ....

Speedy do not go.......if you don't feel like writing for a while, just come in and browse around until you feel more up to it.....

Please u2u or email me off forum if I can help in any way ...no one likes bullies ......

Fozzie


blakep82 - 17/8/10 at 12:04 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Benzine
stay dude! *straight six solidarity*


yeah str8 6!


steve m - 17/8/10 at 12:07 PM

Fozzie, your FEMALE !!!

OMG


contaminated - 17/8/10 at 12:13 PM

quote:
Originally posted by steve m
Fozzie, your FEMALE !!!

OMG


I know, what a shocker If I'd have known that I wouldn't have bigged him up elsewhere! Bloody women drivers etc etc

If someone feels the need to post that they've been upset - then they must have really been upset in my view. Maybe some off forum judication?


jabbahutt - 17/8/10 at 12:15 PM

I think you should stay. As mentioned in the above posts 99% of members are friendly, genuine people with a common interest in life. I'd never of got my car finished without thie members of this forum.

Ignore those who have nothing more worthwhile to do than attempt to wind you up.

All the best


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 12:22 PM

Damn.... and I thought you ALL knew that I was female by now ....

Does this mean I'm going to get burnt at the stake again? ..... ....doh!

Seriously Speedy ......u2u/email me....I will help in any way I can ....


hicost blade - 17/8/10 at 12:24 PM

Name and shame them mate


scudderfish - 17/8/10 at 12:30 PM

quote:
Originally posted by steve m
Fozzie, your FEMALE !!!

OMG


<pedant>That would be "you're"</pedant>



Speedy, if someone is pissing you off with inappropriate posts/u2u, report them. Chris & Fozzie do an excellent job of keeping a stable ship if they know what is happening.


Daddylonglegs - 17/8/10 at 12:30 PM

Don't go! Ignore the pillox, as already said, the moment you leave is the moment they win!!

They are probably getting off on the very fact that you started this thread in the first place.

I agree, this forum is better with people like you rather than without, stick around bud


carpmart - 17/8/10 at 12:35 PM

Come on Speedy, it can't be that bad! Look at all the support you have received in the last hour!

Stay!


liam.mccaffrey - 17/8/10 at 12:37 PM

Female!!!! I thought you were Steve Mcqueen?!?!

quote:
Originally posted by Fozzie
Damn.... and I thought you ALL knew that I was female by now ....

Does this mean I'm going to get burnt at the stake again? ..... ....doh!

Seriously Speedy ......u2u/email me....I will help in any way I can ....


adithorp - 17/8/10 at 12:41 PM

Iis this in u2u's? I couldn't recall reading anything that I'd have considered rude or offensive, so I've had a trawl back through your posts (2weeks before I got bored) and can't find anything. If it is just u2u's from one member report them to Fozzie or Chris and delete anymore without opening... Or just publish the contents along with thier senders name.


splitrivet - 17/8/10 at 12:43 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Fozzie
Just ignore whoever it is.....

You should have seen all of the 'off-forum' comments I had, when some found out that I was female, had built a car....even some questioning my sexuality......And oh yes.....I have the sheer audacity to have had a National B race licence for quite a few years....Ye Gods.....if 'some' had had their way I would have been burnt at the stake! ....


Fozzie

OK you might be a female now but how about when you built your car.

Dont do it speedy if you do they win.
Cheers,
Bob


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 12:57 PM

quote:
Originally posted by splitrivet
quote:
Originally posted by Fozzie
Just ignore whoever it is.....

You should have seen all of the 'off-forum' comments I had, when some found out that I was female, had built a car....even some questioning my sexuality......And oh yes.....I have the sheer audacity to have had a National B race licence for quite a few years....Ye Gods.....if 'some' had had their way I would have been burnt at the stake! ....


Fozzie

OK you might be a female now but how about when you built your car...........Bob


oooOOooo Bob you little tinker!

I have had a trawl through too.......and can't find anything 'bad'......nor have I had any 'reports' .... so like you ^ ^ I am assuming by u2u? ... if so, just 'ignore' or delete without opening....and to be fair to ChrisW and myself, if we don't know (you've not told us) we cannot stop it......


gottabedone - 17/8/10 at 01:01 PM

Hey Bob I'm not sure that you entirely meant what came across there ^^^ - sounds like you're suggesting that an operation may have been involved at some point - we've already got one upset member!

Steve


adithorp - 17/8/10 at 01:04 PM

Have I just invented a new way to waste time on here?... Find the offensive post!

adrian

ps. Have you seen how clean and tidy Fozzies car is? She has to be female or have a serious case of OCD.


Badger_McLetcher - 17/8/10 at 01:26 PM

Don't leave dude! Just point out the idiot and get the admins to admininster "le boot".


Dangle_kt - 17/8/10 at 01:42 PM

I think someone will have staired him down over his:

"oh, I seem to have left the wallet in the jaaaaaaaaaaaaaag, you wouldn't mind would you?"




Come on sweet cheeks, we will love you long time if you stay.


Liam - 17/8/10 at 02:16 PM

Name and shame, post contents of U2Us so we can all see who's the idiot and how much of an idiot they are. Hopefully they'll be embarrassed/shamed enough to leave with their tails between their legs. Then stay and move on.


40inches - 17/8/10 at 02:16 PM

As all the above: DON'T DO IT


James - 17/8/10 at 02:21 PM

quote:
Originally posted by adithorp
Iis this in u2u's? I couldn't recall reading anything that I'd have considered rude or offensive, so I've had a trawl back through your posts (2weeks before I got bored) and can't find anything. If it is just u2u's from one member report them to Fozzie or Chris and delete anymore without opening... Or just publish the contents along with thier senders name.


Haha, I did that too!

Couldn't find anything either!


omega0684 - 17/8/10 at 02:28 PM

i agree with the majority, its a name and shame moment! You have been an indispensible member of the forum for many months/years!

If it offence is through u2u's then i would suggest forwarding them to fozzie or chris and letting them take the appropriate actions!

Im sure that fozzie and Chris know who most of the bad eggs are but then again whats to stop them just re-registering under a different user name?

P.S (the fozz-meister is a chick, no way dude , big up the fozz!)

[Edited on 17/8/10 by omega0684]


cd.thomson - 17/8/10 at 02:30 PM

quote:
Originally posted by omega0684
i agree with the majority, its a name and shame moment! You have been an indispensible member of the forum for many months/years!

If it offence is through u2u's then i would suggest forwarding them to fozzie or chris and letting them take the appropriate actions!

Im sure that fozzie and Chris know who most of the bad eggs are but then again whats to stop them just re-registering under a different user name?

P.S (the fozz-meister is a chick, no way dude , big up the fozz!)

[Edited on 17/8/10 by omega0684]


Can you not remember the trial by fire you have to go through to register on here .


blakep82 - 17/8/10 at 02:56 PM

quote:
Originally posted by cd.thomson


Can you not remember the trial by fire you have to go through to register on here .


before our time i think! never had any of the phonecalls to register


carpmart - 17/8/10 at 03:02 PM

I remember registering and its not easy!


Alan B - 17/8/10 at 03:04 PM

It's funny when I think back a few years....I was corresponding with Fozzie about visting me in Florida to swap car stories grab a beer etc.....nearer the day, whilst in Florida I got a phone call......"Hello Alan...this is Fozzie..."

I wish I could have seen my own face at that moment.....

Anyway back on topic...

Speedy.....stay, please.....


55ant - 17/8/10 at 03:09 PM

Dont do it buddy, Jag fans need to stick together,


Bluemoon - 17/8/10 at 03:22 PM

Sick with it... Ignore em..


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 03:42 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Alan B
It's funny when I think back a few years....I was corresponding with Fozzie about visting me in Florida to swap car stories grab a beer etc.....nearer the day, whilst in Florida I got a phone call......"Hello Alan...this is Fozzie..."

I wish I could have seen my own face at that moment...............


I really wish that I had had a video phone too Alan......that truly was one of my never to be forgotten moments in life ..... the hotel I called you from (think....Norman Bates in Psycho.......and you have the hotel we stayed at), and the spluttering/choking noises from your end when I spoke to you......and then meeting you and your wonderful family......and your garage!

Best bit was The Sugar Shack...and yes, we still talk about it to this day........

We really, really must do it again some day soon......

You see Speedy, by leaving us, you will also miss opportunities like the above, to meet and make some wonderful friends .... so again.....don't go!


Alan B - 17/8/10 at 04:15 PM

Fozzie,

This may bring back memories...

Sugar Shack
Sugar Shack


Be great to have you visit again...


zilspeed - 17/8/10 at 04:17 PM

What SSSShe said ^^^^^^^^^

LCB is a most unsually respectfull internet forum, by and large, but there are alsways one or two who can't work out how to behave..

To our resident Jag fan.
You've never come across to me as anything other than completely respectfull, so you have no reason whatosever to go anywhere, so you're not going anywhere, right ?

If I have to come round there etc...


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 04:45 PM

Awwww thanks for that Alan ..... getting all teary-ful here now .....

Just one thing.......can't quite see the bullet holes in the 'Shack .....and where have them-thar horses gone? (To others..think good ol' wild west saloon bar ..but for real! ) Wonderful place!

Good to see them-thar pick-up trucks still in residence though.....


Johneturbo - 17/8/10 at 05:17 PM

you mean fuzzy wuzzy is a woman

was that a line from see no evil hear no evil

speedy stay for all the cec's they need you!


t16turbotone - 17/8/10 at 05:29 PM

come on speedy, been following your build for a while now with great interest, dont bow down to a bully


eddie99 - 17/8/10 at 05:33 PM

This is ridicolous, get fozzie to sort it out and if you leave, they have won.... I've also had a look through recent threads and cant see much...

Come back Mr Jag...


bi22le - 17/8/10 at 05:45 PM

Is that it?

Has he gone? ... sob... sob

I never got to ask what all that scary seal in the corner of the avatar pic was about...

I hope who ever it is has read all of these posts and feels that they have done a diservice to this wonderful forum.

I thought we were all grown up men (and women, sorry Fozzie, still a shock!) that could chat cars and generally share happy times!

See you soon speedy. Im sure you will come back with time.


Stuart_B - 17/8/10 at 05:53 PM

do not go speedy since i joined and built my car, when i need a question answered, it was all ways done quickly, and a lot of the times by you.

come back and get fozzie on it.

stu


perksy - 17/8/10 at 06:03 PM

Sorry to hear about this

I haven't been around on here for long but everybody seems to get on well

Take up Fozzys kind offer of a confidential behind the scenes chat and see if it can all be resolved

Don't leave Yet


speedyxjs - 17/8/10 at 06:40 PM

BLOODY HELL, that is alot of replys!!!!!

I only came to look on here after the number of facebook messages
I have sent Fozzie a u2u explaining the situation and have had a u2u from the locostbuilder in question and i think it is now all sorted. I think it may have started with a misunderstanding and i just found a reply today abit too much.

I dont think i could have coped very long without lcb before i got withdrawl symptons anyway tbh I may have ended up on haynes forum

Thanks for all the support guys and girls

[Edited on 17-8-10 by speedyxjs]


Peteff - 17/8/10 at 06:41 PM

Leave it and don't get drawn in to anything it's only the internet and you always get conflicting opinions. Someone once called me a tw@t for a comment about tig welding with co2, I wouldn't sink to that level or even grace it with a reply.


Richard Quinn - 17/8/10 at 07:28 PM

Bloody hell! I am just playing catch-up and thought I had better post something before anyone thinks it was me (it wasn't! I'm not a big fan of Jags but Speedy's ok!)
It's so easy to missinterpret the written word, especially on t'interweb where everything is rushed and rarely re-read before posting / sending!


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 07:47 PM

Nowt wrong with Jags...as long as they are pre 70's ...(that's what we do)....LOL .....

Speedy's u2u received and replied to .....

Fozzie


adithorp - 17/8/10 at 08:27 PM

Bloody hell he's back!

Does this mean we've got to be nice to him?

adrian


bigpig - 17/8/10 at 08:33 PM

quote:
Originally posted by speedyxjs
BLOODY HELL, that is alot of replys!!!!!
]


Thats all fair enough, but what is with the brddy seal on the avatar

I was alright until bi22le mentioned it.


Fozzie - 17/8/10 at 08:52 PM

Have you realised that the brddy seal also pops up on our Humbugs avatar too!

Cheeky blighter .....


bigpig - 17/8/10 at 09:00 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Fozzie
Have you realised that the brddy seal also pops up on our Humbugs avatar too!

Cheeky blighter .....


Noooooooooooo, its worse than that badger craze.


Angel Acevedo - 17/8/10 at 11:14 PM

As stated,
To all other members and taking the point of view from some posters.
Even though some members post personal or insulting posts, ignoring them is the way to go.
Thereīs even a mexican song that says: ... love me or hate me but donīt ignore me... which leads me to believe that ignoring must be the worst to the offending party.....


Humbug - 18/8/10 at 07:24 AM

Glad to see that "a while", as in "my last post for a while" was only about 8 hours.

And yes, I shamelessly stole the seal from Speedy - I admit it and I apologise (but I'm not going to change my avatar for the time being)

Welcome back


02GF74 - 18/8/10 at 07:33 AM

seal? what seal? dunno wot u lot are on about.

btw welcome back .... not like you have been away long


Peteff - 18/8/10 at 10:25 AM

The seal is everywhere. Penguins are getting an ASBO to keep him off their patch.


splitrivet - 18/8/10 at 02:11 PM

This has happened a few times before though, Steve Gusterston being on the receiving end on one occasion way back. Dont think Fozz was admin then though.
Cheers,
Bob


Fozzie - 18/8/10 at 02:47 PM

quote:
Originally posted by splitrivet
This has happened a few times before though, Steve Gusterston being on the receiving end on one occasion way back. Dont think Fozz was admin then though.
Cheers,
Bob


No Bob, I wasn't admin then ....

Fozzie