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mistergrumpy - 22/12/07 at 01:39 PM

How come I'm a 'bah humbug!' I live on my own and have very few visitors, in fact my mam drops my shopping off for me on a Sunday and thats it (don't ask!). So I've decided not to bother putting a tree up as there's only me'll see it and I'm at work most of the time but no I'm a humbug and everybody else is right. Christmas is far too commercialised with stuff costing waaay too much and everybody just seems to use it as an excuse to spend too much and over indulge and it seemingly starts way back at the beginning of November now. But no everyone else is right and I'm wrong, how does that figure?


smart51 - 22/12/07 at 01:51 PM

I'm with you. Christmas is a 12 day festival starting on the 24th. Is that not long enough? Some people start on the 6th of November and carry on for 2 months. At this rate, the season of good will will be a whole season. I saw some mince pies a few weeks ago, best before 30/11/07. That's not even the same month as Christmas. And I hate Christmas songs. Carols are all right, its the jingly money making stuff. I hate "Christmas" and would gladly go back 100 years and just have a week of it.


stevec - 22/12/07 at 01:51 PM

Simple answer is stop living on your own and the rest will come to you automaticly .
Steve.


Aboardman - 22/12/07 at 01:56 PM

I have lived by myself for the last 6 years and never put up a tree or any decortions for me to look at. I get few vistors so why bother.


omega 24 v6 - 22/12/07 at 02:07 PM

LOL are you my long lost twin brother. If I were by myself I'd be exactly the same as you so don't take it to heart mate. In fact If I were you I'd piddle of to the sun for two weeks.


Mr Whippy - 22/12/07 at 02:09 PM

Considering just how few people are religious these days, the meaning of Christmas is now just spending money, a bit sad really.

Why not try and organise a get together with other locost members at the pub or something like that. I don’t know if you’re a member of any other clubs (I’m a member of the local R/C model plane and boating clubs a very friendly bunch) there’s loads of different interests out there. Cars can be the most lonely hobby there is when your locked away you in your garage.

Have a look around where you are and see if anyone else is into cars, I’ve recently become friends with a guy who’s restoring really old vintage cars just 2 minutes down the road, I never even realised that he did cars till I saw him pushing one out and he’s only lived here the last 12 years…

I liked living on my own, no I loved it! The piece and quite yet be able to play my music at 150db when it suited me (weird taste in music), stay up to half three in the morning and not get in trouble, do the dishes days later bliss

I'm not being funnily like, but I know a lot of folk who used dating agency's, no really, just ask a few couples you know how the got together...it surprised me.

Oh and Happy Christmas Mr Grumpy

[Edited on 22/12/07 by Mr Whippy]


RazMan - 22/12/07 at 02:14 PM

"Christmas is a 12 day festival starting on the 24th"

Ah if only that was true - I saw tinsel and crackers being sold back in September!

It's just another money making, over commercialised excuse to get pished.

The irony is that it is supposed to be a religious festival, and yet confirmed aithiests are happy to join in along with all the other non believers.

We seem to spend half the time visiting people that we can't be bothered with for the rest of the year, eating food that makes us feel ill, drinking to excess and singing daft songs!

Bloomin Christmas - Bah Humbug. Roll on January


mistergrumpy - 22/12/07 at 02:21 PM

No no don't get me wrong. I'm not moaning that I'm lonely or owt and if I had a missus or kids then I'd make an effort but how come people think I'm in the wrong? Its crazy. I am actually looking at getting away in the New Year when its all dark and sh1tty here and people have used all their leave on Christmas. Moo haa haaaaa! That'll teach them


Mr Whippy - 22/12/07 at 02:24 PM

if no one comes round, how do they know you have no decorations. Just say you do


mistergrumpy - 22/12/07 at 02:27 PM

I like it. I can then tell them to ram it


mitch2b - 22/12/07 at 05:16 PM

now i know why she called you grumpy and why you live alone you misrable bugger and i thought i was a bah humbug, you make me look exstatic in comparison



Mitch


zxrlocost - 22/12/07 at 06:01 PM

loads of people by me with kids are still yet to put decorations up? whats going on

personally when its pushed in your face september people will loose interest


iank - 22/12/07 at 06:18 PM

quote:
Originally posted by RazMan
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The irony is that it is supposed to be a religious festival, and yet confirmed aithiests are happy to join in along with all the other non believers.
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Indeed, but some of the more important pagan symbolism of the renewal of the year and return of the light still struggles through all the commercialism and Christian attempts to hijack the occasion.


martyn_16v - 22/12/07 at 06:53 PM

Every year our company makes a mint sucking money out of mugs in christmas grottos, from the first weekend of November onwards. What little enthusiasm I had for christmas got lost by about the second week of november in the first year I worked one. At least I get to decommission (with gusto) one on christmas eve. It's quite therapeutic

They even asked for me to stand in for Santa once, oh how I laughed


MikeRJ - 22/12/07 at 07:06 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Mr Whippy
Considering just how few people are religious these days, the meaning of Christmas is now just spending money, a bit sad really.


I totally agree about the ridiculous commercialisation. Christmas to me is more about family getting together, having fun, eating nice food and relaxing.


roadrunner - 22/12/07 at 07:30 PM

I am not religious, far from it, but i have just enjoyed a really nice meal with the misses and daughter and a bottle of wine [half pi***d] but i think xmass is the best time of the year, one and a half weeks off work[they pay] and to see my daughters face, even now before xmass day is priceless. Bar Humbug to those who think otherwise, get out more.


kipper - 22/12/07 at 07:45 PM

I live on my own too... Just put my lights up after returning from 10 days in Tenerife
Get out and enjoy it all. You are along time dead. this is not a rehearsal.
Seasons greetings Kipper


mistergrumpy - 22/12/07 at 07:57 PM

See yeah I agree with you Roadrunner. If I had the wife and kids then yes I would probably go for it all but I haven't, I don't much interact with my family and I don't get time off at Christmas so I'm just not playing. As for you Kipper well your just perverted My original post was because of people like you. Getting all excited over nowt and saying anyone else is just plain wrong. You're a wierdo


Gav - 22/12/07 at 08:10 PM

Well if it makes you feel better Chris ill get the mistletoe out for you when i see you next


mistergrumpy - 22/12/07 at 08:21 PM

Let us know if you're needing a hand or owt


roadrunner - 22/12/07 at 08:31 PM

What sort of a hand would that be Chris.
Each to his own i say.
Now where's that fence.


mitch2b - 22/12/07 at 08:59 PM

If your threatning people with the Mistletoe Gav, i wont be round to see how the builds comintchg along this christmas

Mitch


Gav - 23/12/07 at 10:30 AM

I find it keeps the carol singers away nicely


David Jenkins - 23/12/07 at 11:06 AM

What really gets me are the queues and crowding in the supermarkets... they're only closed 2 days, some only 1, so why stock up for a seige?

I also hate the fact that the shops see it as an opportunity to shift rubbish. I went into town yesterday, looking for a necklace as a present to my wife. There was so much tat laid out for sale at stupid prices that I went home.

We've agreed that I'll give her an IOU, and we'll go to Hatton Garden in London in the new year. I've bought her some really good stuff there in the past, either at a fraction of H. Samuel's prices, or more value for the same money. And it's a day out!

Bah Humbug indeed!

David

Oh - a Happy Christmas to all, if I don't remember to say it before the day!