jacko
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posted on 18/5/18 at 05:28 PM |
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Look after your Mum
You only have one
sad news i lost mine today from dementia
jacko
[Edited on 18/5/18 by jacko]
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steve m
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posted on 18/5/18 at 05:30 PM |
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Sorry to hear that
I dread that day when it comes
steve
Thats was probably spelt wrong, or had some grammer, that the "grammer police have to have a moan at
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jossey
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posted on 18/5/18 at 05:51 PM |
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Jacko I am so sorry for your loss.
I hope it brings you peace to know she is in peace now.
Beat wishes, an old chat friend.
Thanks
David Johnson
Building my tiger avon slowly but surely.
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scootz
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posted on 18/5/18 at 06:35 PM |
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You have my sympathies. I went through the same 7 months ago.
It's Evolution Baby!
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wylliezx9r
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posted on 18/5/18 at 07:16 PM |
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My sincere condolences
I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered.
George Best
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James24785
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posted on 18/5/18 at 07:43 PM |
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Thoughts are with you mate
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perksy
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posted on 18/5/18 at 08:06 PM |
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Sorry for your loss
Condolences to you and your family
I know it'll happen one day and I'm dreading it as mine's always been there for me through thick and thin..
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roadrunner
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posted on 18/5/18 at 08:25 PM |
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Sorry to hear that Graham.
Our thoughts are with you.
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SJ
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posted on 18/5/18 at 08:42 PM |
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Condolences. Dementia is rotten.
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myke pocock
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posted on 19/5/18 at 01:55 PM |
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Yes we lost our Mum a few years ago from fast acting dementia. Twelve weeks from looking after herself to passing away. Horrible to see. My thoughts
are with you.
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jacko
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posted on 19/5/18 at 05:29 PM |
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Thank you very much for your post's
Now for all the paper work and organizing to start on Monday
thanks again
Graham
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40inches
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posted on 19/5/18 at 06:53 PM |
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Sorry to hear that jacko
I lost mine 20 years ago, I wasn't there when she died, that still weighs heavily.
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02GF74
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posted on 21/5/18 at 08:49 AM |
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I am sorry to hear that and hope you were able to spend time with her in the last weeks/months.
It's horrible to lose someone very close but it makes you realise how precious our families are.
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jps
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posted on 21/5/18 at 10:03 AM |
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Sorry to hear that, thankfully i've had no direct experience of dementia in my family to date, for which I am extremely grateful.
When my grandmother died (with whom my father had had a fractious relationship) he cried as we came out of the church after the funeral. I said
"I am sorry" to him, he said "I'm crying for the relationship we never had". That made me think (and has ever since - it
was 14 years ago), I can tell you.
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nick205
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posted on 21/5/18 at 04:07 PM |
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Sorry to hear this!
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jacko
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posted on 21/5/18 at 04:54 PM |
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Thanks all again
I don.t know where i would be without Kathryn my wife helping do all the paper work ,organizing ,telephoning etc
a big thank's goes to her
Graham
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PAUL FISHER
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posted on 21/5/18 at 05:24 PM |
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So sorry to hear that Graham, my thoughts are with you and your family.
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jacko
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posted on 21/5/18 at 06:15 PM |
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Thanks Paul
i hope all is well at your end
G
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PAUL FISHER
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posted on 21/5/18 at 11:31 PM |
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Not really mate, I feel your pain, my Dad's got terminal cancer, he's only got a few months, so spending alot of my time with him and my
Mum, but life must go on, although it's very hard.
It's no fun getting older, seeing your loved one's in pain😢
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Ivan
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posted on 22/5/18 at 03:55 AM |
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My sympathies mate. Having seen my Mom go from a strong independent woman (who had been everything from a farmer, diamond prospector, hunter,
fisherman and someone who could put a spanner to anything and never allowed her gender to limit her activities and yet was always a loving mother and
wife and real lady) to a helpless, paranoid stranger who didn't recognise us, was very very hard indeed.
She was also the best driver around - everybody who spent any time in a car with her driving would comment on how well she drove - very fast but
always safe and fully in control.
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jacko
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posted on 22/5/18 at 09:53 AM |
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Paul you have a U2U
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02GF74
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posted on 25/5/18 at 04:19 PM |
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quote: Originally posted by PAUL FISHER
my Dad's got terminal cancer, he's only got a few months, so spending alot of my time with him and my Mum.
Really sorry to hear this, spend as much time as you can and talk because you won't be able to later. Difficult times ahead
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