Im in a tricky situation and not sure wether to splash out on a party for friends and relatives, or just go on a cruise with the kids and the mrs.

Just after a bit of inspatation really, what would be a good cruise to go on as the party stuff is almost sorted but no deposit has been paid yet.

Ideas please peep's.

I'm 40 in Febuary next year, and was faced with the same dilemma.

I chose to go on holiday in Florida with the current Mrs Smouldin and the kids. While we are over there we are going to attend the Daytona 500. Got tickets next to the start/finish line.......can;t wait.

It's up to you, but I'd go on the cruise and have a party on your 50th.

Do Both!!!

Go on a cruise with the Mrs and Kids, and then have a party whilst on board.

If your mates want to come to your party, they can buy tickets for the cruise and join you.

Simples [Chk]

Disneyland sounds good, anyone got experience of that, America not Paris

Cruise...

It's a no-brainer - the cruise is the way to go - lasts much longer and fun for the whole family.

40 ? Hard paper round was it

Stuff the party, paying for everyone else to enjoy themselves.

Get your arse to Disneyland, cruises are for OLD people.